23 March 2013

人都应该有梦 有梦就别怕痛

温暖推荐 阳光小品 淋雨一直走
歌手:张韶涵

[改编词]:姚若龙 [原词曲]: Hermanni Kovalainen/ Ilanguaq Lumholt/ Henrik Tala



张韶涵Angela
credits: 
http://www.1ting.com/cover/cover60745.html

Oh~人都应该有梦 有梦就别怕痛

有雷声在轰不停 雨泼进眼里看不清
谁急速狂飙 溅我一身的泥泞
很确定我想去哪里
往天堂要跳过地狱 也不恐惧 不逃避

这不是脾气 是所谓志气(与勇气)
你能推我下悬崖 我能学会飞行
从不听 谁的命令(很独立)
耳朵用来听自己的心灵

淋雨一直走 是一颗宝石就该闪烁
人都应该有梦 有梦就别怕痛
淋雨一直走 是道阳光就该暖和
人都应该有梦 有梦就别怕痛

有前面盘旋的秃鹰 有背后尖酸的耳语
黑色的童话 是给长大的洗礼
要独特才是流行 无法复制的自己
让我连受伤也有型

有时掉进黑洞 有时候爬上彩虹
在下一秒钟 命运如何转动 没有人会晓得Oh~
我说希望无穷 你猜美梦成空
相信和怀疑 总要决斗

歌曲主题(部分文摘自专辑简介)
《淋雨一直走》这首歌,是张韶涵(Angela)将自己追梦的艰辛旅途,她一路走来勇敢地面对泥泞、挫折的那种永不放弃、“打不死的蟑螂”的精神和人生经历融入歌词的抒情小品。

Angela的坚定歌声如一道暖阳带来了希望, 传达出这些年来她所历经过的低潮并没把她击倒。她将坚强的意志化为旋律,将挫折化为前进的力量,期待能带给更多人永不放弃的信念。如歌词中提到[所有的悬崖秃鹰 耳语 黑洞]都是成就我们拥有更坚强完整的人生,[黑色的童话是给长大的洗礼]就算面对挫折也从未退缩害怕,以及重新出发的正面态度。

谁说遇到挫折低潮就该伤心流泪? 天堂和地狱只是一线之隔,只要相信自己,即使前面困难重重,我们还是要坚定地大步向前走!

我听这首风格清新的歌曲时是轻松又开心的,歌词励志向上旋律更是让人有想大步迈进的动力!“Keep walking and never stop/ 一直向前走”的精神,是Angela想表达的生命态度也是歌曲的中心思想,和我现在的人生态度是相同的。
有梦想就别轻易忘记;敢于梦想能带来更多阳光朝气与希望!

歌词写到:“你能推我下悬崖但我能学会飞行,”而我已经准备好了要振翅高飞,既使跌到了也不会怕痛!

所以我参加了这个比赛 Big Blog Exchange 勇敢地往自己的梦想大步前进!
我希望能成功获选为亚太区的代表到外国进行文化交流,并希望借此机会宣传[LoveCareLife 爱心关爱生命]宣扬的正能量到世界的任何一个角落!

酷爱自助旅行的我正幻想着像MV里的Angela那样当起背包客,比出“赞”的手势要搭便车!在外国来回跑动,边走边唱一定会很开心”更期待在国外交到朋友我想会是一件很快乐的事啊!

21 March 2013

Big Blog Exchange 2013 让[爱心关怀生命]随着梦想飞翔到世界各地散发正能量!

“人能因梦想而伟大”有梦就去追!
One becomes great because he or she dares to pursue their dreams. Do not ever give up on yourself or your dreams. Keep on trying until these dreams become reality.



Hi everyone! I have decided to participate in the Big Blog Exchange, an exciting, unique and exclusive project where sixteen passionate bloggers would be selected at the end of the competition phase to swap lives, blogs, cultures and places simultaneously in real life for ten days.

The initial round of this competition kicks off with the selection of the top 100 from the thousand of participants through an online voting process. A panel of jury members will then review each blog on its content and inspiration for taking part in the exchange, before whittling them down to just 14 finalists. Additionally, 2 more wildcard bloggers would also be selected based purely on their passion, inspiration and their motivation in being one of the 16 ambassadors. Finally these bloggers will be sharing on their personal experiences while they immerse themselves in the local cultures of the different places they are going to visit for the next 10 days and the voting site will be open for voters to pick their favourite blogger!

I really hope that I will get the chance to represent Asia for this event and to at least make it into the top 100 most prominent blogs. I am certain that my success if it should come would also be the success of my dear supporters and readers who have help me realise and fulfil this dream together believing that we indeed can become great because we dare to pursue our dreams and make it a reality.


Please follow this few simple steps to cast your vote for me.
Step 1:
Please go to this website http://www.bigblogexchange.org/blog/182006

Step 2: Click on the pink coloured VOTE button
Step 3: Key in your EMAIL address into the type box
Step 4: A verification email will then be send to your EMAIL account. Please click and verify your vote by clicking on the link provided. The vote will only be counted upon clicking on the verification link send out to your email.
The closing date for this voting process will end on the 15th of April 2013.

Lastly, please do post this blog link on your Facebook wall or email and share my participation with all your friends 
help me to make this dream a reality by encouraging them to vote for me. Please allow me to express my heartfelt thanks and to let each and every one of you know that I am really grateful for all your support.

My Motivation
Dear Readers, I would like to start off by sharing a bit about myself. I was born and raised in Johor, Malaysia but has resided in Singapore for a few years now and is now holding a permanent resident status in Singapore. My initial purpose of starting this blog was to express my inner feelings and emotions with regards to a series of unhappy incidents which had happened to me leading up to the last minute cancellations of my planned wedding. What make the hurt and pain I felt more immense was the fact that this sudden cancellation was due to a betrayal in the relationship and the involvement of a third party.

Somewhere in December 2012, the series of events of my story were published on Facebook and attracted the attention of tens of thousands of netizens. The sharing of my pain and setbacks of the events which eventually led to the calling of of my wedding has also attracted a high volume of netizens who have also experienced the same and were able to relate to what I am going through. Words of encouragement pour in by the hundreds and thousands and a lot of these readers also came to the Facebook page to share their views on what has happened to me.

While sharing my experiences, I came across a particular reader who was suffering from severe depression due to her husband’s extramarital affair. She told me that she has been following my Facebook blog since its launch and revealed to me that she has planned and attempted suicide multiple times. Through our numerous exchanges online, I share with her my experiences on how I attempted to overcome the hurt and betrayal I went through. We were able to relate to each other due to our similar experiences and we ended up supporting, counselling and encouraging each other on. Eventually with the aid of my much needed helping hand, she decided to drop the idea of suicide totally and muster her courage to face up to life bravely. With the constant support and advice of not only me but also a group of friends I’ve gathered, she managed to salvage her family and her husband acknowledge his wrongdoings and ended his affair. Words cannot express the happiness and warmth in my heart when her husband contacted me to apologize for his wrongdoings and thank me for helping him and his wife through this testing stage of their life.

It was through this life transforming event that motivated me to finally decide to setup my YUKI NG FB BLOG not only as a form of two-way communication for my readers to stay in touch with me, but also for them to relate with and share their own experiences. Subsequently, the [LOVE.CARE.LIFE] Facebook community page was also launched by me as a charity campaign to call forth and gather volunteers from every corner of the world to participate in the mission of impacting lives and to utilize the social media as a one stop meeting point to plan for future events and activities relating to our cause. The purpose of the [LOVE.CARE.LIFE] campaign is to create a circle of trust and care to reach out to people who are in need of a helping hand with the hope of helping them to overcome their struggles and difficulties in life. Most importantly, we most hope to reach out to those who are suffering from depression, psychosomatic traumas and suicidal tendencies by being there for them to aid them to recover and to help to successfully reintegrate them into our society. I sincerely hope that I can contribute and play a part in this humanitarian project in creating a more gracious and loving society.

My current objective is to bring my volunteers into the understanding of the simplicity of kindness and care aiming to awaken the good nature of humanity. What I hope to do is to leverage on various technological platforms to bridge the communication and distance between my volunteers to strengthen cohesion and team work. By leveraging on each others’ strength and uncovering the hidden potential within, we hope to be able to spread love, hope and faith to every corner of the globe. We hope that by doing so, we can awaken the fighting sprit from within of those who needs help to spur them on towards overcoming each and every obstacle and challenge that stands in their way. Our world will only change for the better if we believe so and by participating in the Big Blog Exchange, I hope to be able to help spread the cause of [LOVE.CARE.LIFE] around the world.

关于我 General Information About me:
http://www.facebook.com/iamyuking
♥ Email: yukinstar@gmail.com
♥ Twitter: Yuki Ng @Iamyuking
♥ Instagram: yukidehappiness
http://www.facebook.com/LoveCareLife
http://www.facebook.com/events/292458117524538
♥ Email: yukinglovelifecare@gmail.com


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大家好!我参加了这项全球性的博客交换国家交流计划的竞赛! 
比赛是先从世界各地投选出100最强的博客,然后由国际委员会选出16个超强博客和其他国家的优胜博主交换居住的国家,在10天内沉浸在当地文化洗礼过后为读者们分享旅程的经验。
希望我能有幸成为亚太区的博客代表,想要胜出入选100强完全是依赖你们读者大力的支持,请协助我的梦想起飞吧!让我们相信人能因梦想而伟大

如何投票:
1) 请按网址http://www.bigblogexchange.org/blog/182006
2) 请点击【投票填入电邮地址】再点击【确认投票Link 】投票方才有效!
    *可看指示附图*
比赛在4月15日截止

最后,请帮忙【发电邮】或【传分享】在Facebook邀请你的家人朋友一起来投票吧!请帮YUKI NG达成梦想,美梦成真!谢谢您的支持!感恩♥


我的推动力

我出生在马来西亚,目前定居在新加坡。开始写Blog原先只是想舒解与释怀内心压抑着因婚变所带来的伤痛,Dec 2012在FB公开部分Blog内容后引起了多个国家读者们的高度关注以不同角度和观念来议论这起事件。我分享的伤痛经历吸引了一大群同病相怜的心灵创伤者与我交流,其中一名忧郁症患者追踪我的Blog时透露了她想自杀的倾向。我马上用互联网联系的方式关心和鼓励她并集合网友们正面的精神支持成功感动了她放弃自杀的念头选择勇敢的活下去。这股具影响的力量让我有了使命感想继续写Blog, 开设了YUKI NG FB Blog来联系网友读者的交流并成立了[LOVE.CARE.LIFE]FB PAGE公益活动集合各国各地自愿的网络义工们利用网络资讯和计划筹办团体活动,共同努力献出互相关爱互助共存的精神来帮助受重创伤后无法走出困境阴影而引发的后遗症包括患上噪郁忧郁症, 自虐自残, 自暴自弃糟蹋人生甚至是放弃宝贵生命的人, 我希望能为社会人群做一点贡献。 我的目标是以真诚来唤醒人们心中最初那真善美的灵魂, 利用多媒体科技拉近人与人之间的距离, 团结互动, 一起散发出超强正能量在世界每个角落, 让世界每个人的心灵都被温暖着充满了希望, 凭信念坚强的站起来勇敢面对人生中的每一个挑战和挫折。 改变观念和角度, 世界也会随着你而改变! 我参加这国际博客交流计划就是为了鼓励读者们, 人能因梦想而伟大,不要放弃自己, 勇敢让美梦成真!

人生就是不断的奋斗,让我们一起加油吧

♥ Yuki Ng

12 March 2013

读者网友交流聚会 新尝试!

从那创伤事件开始,一大堆想为社会贡献的念头和点子不停的浮现催动着我去进行。。。。

不知不觉的创立 [LoveCareLife 爱心关怀生命] 以来已经快三个月了。
在面子书的推广方面从自己一个人到加入了几个网友的帮忙,到现在一组专业自愿义工组员的加入来协助我的不足,帮忙把它系统化。。。让我感觉真的很欣慰。

想把 [LoveCareLife 爱心关怀生命] 这样一个看似抽象但如果深一步想却实实在在牵动每一个人的生活和人生中息息相关的慈善公益活动要做起来是很不容易的。首先会支持的人大多数都是感同身受的人。
想要广泛的推广给公众,宣扬正能量的信念作为创办人首要条件自己就必须时时刻刻保持正面思想心境乐观其实就已经很不简单了。我必需很努力的培养自身正面积极的心理建设和乐观地坚持这个理念,信仰正能量并能把它发扬光大!

从一开始的满腔热忱,到面对了语论,困惑与迷惘,彷徨与针扎,未知的胆怯与生活的种种压力,家人朋友的担心劝导,止步反复思考到现在。。。让自己更进一步坚定的相信自己想做的这件事。

当然我沮丧过,疲累过,失望过,曾经也想过放弃,也想过不如自己顾自己好好过自己简简单单的生活不就好了吗?至少做到了所谓社会公式化所认同的“正常生活”在表面上会让关心我的家人朋友们放心吧。

但当每次想起之前向我救助他们正面临人生重大打击,身心灵都深受极度重创,严重影响生活工作和人际关系但却久久不能自己的读者网友们。。。看到他们就好像看到当初的我一样。不一样的是,我是比较幸运的那个,因为我拥有坚强的家人和朋友的关爱围绕在我身边支持着我,加上自我求好求生的意志力强烈。我一路走来,虽然辛苦,气馁过但都没放弃过自己。

基于以上的想法总让我有股推动力觉得需要开辟一个管道,一个开放式的平台让需要帮助的人知道在哪里可以找到我们,让他们知道他们不是一个人,帮他们打开心结,拒绝继续活在因重创伤而引起的连锁情绪反应如:担心害怕,羞愧恐惧,无助忧郁,痛苦的阴影里,让他们勇敢的面对人生中的困境走出那不该逗留在里面太久的阴霾。
我相信,这样也会间接的帮助了一些如有家庭成员发生了状况但却无法兼顾的家庭,当他们看到自己受重创伤的家人能在一个正面的管道提供他们协助而慢慢的进步,渐渐恢复,放下释怀,这绝对会让家人们减轻负担而开怀的松下一口气。

我也没想把自己变成英雄化的企求别人来歌颂着我的理念的伟大。 因为这绝对不是一件简单的事,也不是凭一个人能轻易办到的事,更加需要的是—————以一颗单纯想助人的赤子之心来对抗现实生活中丢给你要面对的残酷与压力。要抗战成功,内心需要有多强大才能坚持的挑战呀!

我不想一再因为网络的语论,时间地点,安全居住交通和在乎完全没有赞助经费等考量因素而阻碍我想去进行推广这项公益活动计划。大有大作,小有小为!把一切障碍和问题都简化一一克服后那就没有什么大问题了吧?

所以我就抱着很轻松的心态组办了一系列与各国各地读者网友们见面聚会交流的活动,希望借此简单化的试验式机会传达我小小的心意和分享每个大大的宏愿,希望将来会有更多人受益。

计划的聚会地点:
新加坡 / 柔佛 / 马六甲 / 吉隆坡 / 槟城 / 沙巴 / 砂劳越

人数出席率,效果成功与否都不是我在乎的重点。我只知道这是一项发自内心的使命。这是我心里的声音,一件我希望能完成的事。祝我好运一切顺利吧!

接下来我也会到访一些国家除了旅游也会收集支持,计划有:韩国/ 香港/ 台湾/ 日本等。
希望自己办得到吧!

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