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21 March 2013

Big Blog Exchange 2013 让[爱心关怀生命]随着梦想飞翔到世界各地散发正能量!

“人能因梦想而伟大”有梦就去追!
One becomes great because he or she dares to pursue their dreams. Do not ever give up on yourself or your dreams. Keep on trying until these dreams become reality.



Hi everyone! I have decided to participate in the Big Blog Exchange, an exciting, unique and exclusive project where sixteen passionate bloggers would be selected at the end of the competition phase to swap lives, blogs, cultures and places simultaneously in real life for ten days.

The initial round of this competition kicks off with the selection of the top 100 from the thousand of participants through an online voting process. A panel of jury members will then review each blog on its content and inspiration for taking part in the exchange, before whittling them down to just 14 finalists. Additionally, 2 more wildcard bloggers would also be selected based purely on their passion, inspiration and their motivation in being one of the 16 ambassadors. Finally these bloggers will be sharing on their personal experiences while they immerse themselves in the local cultures of the different places they are going to visit for the next 10 days and the voting site will be open for voters to pick their favourite blogger!

I really hope that I will get the chance to represent Asia for this event and to at least make it into the top 100 most prominent blogs. I am certain that my success if it should come would also be the success of my dear supporters and readers who have help me realise and fulfil this dream together believing that we indeed can become great because we dare to pursue our dreams and make it a reality.


Please follow this few simple steps to cast your vote for me.
Step 1:
Please go to this website http://www.bigblogexchange.org/blog/182006

Step 2: Click on the pink coloured VOTE button
Step 3: Key in your EMAIL address into the type box
Step 4: A verification email will then be send to your EMAIL account. Please click and verify your vote by clicking on the link provided. The vote will only be counted upon clicking on the verification link send out to your email.
The closing date for this voting process will end on the 15th of April 2013.

Lastly, please do post this blog link on your Facebook wall or email and share my participation with all your friends 
help me to make this dream a reality by encouraging them to vote for me. Please allow me to express my heartfelt thanks and to let each and every one of you know that I am really grateful for all your support.

My Motivation
Dear Readers, I would like to start off by sharing a bit about myself. I was born and raised in Johor, Malaysia but has resided in Singapore for a few years now and is now holding a permanent resident status in Singapore. My initial purpose of starting this blog was to express my inner feelings and emotions with regards to a series of unhappy incidents which had happened to me leading up to the last minute cancellations of my planned wedding. What make the hurt and pain I felt more immense was the fact that this sudden cancellation was due to a betrayal in the relationship and the involvement of a third party.

Somewhere in December 2012, the series of events of my story were published on Facebook and attracted the attention of tens of thousands of netizens. The sharing of my pain and setbacks of the events which eventually led to the calling of of my wedding has also attracted a high volume of netizens who have also experienced the same and were able to relate to what I am going through. Words of encouragement pour in by the hundreds and thousands and a lot of these readers also came to the Facebook page to share their views on what has happened to me.

While sharing my experiences, I came across a particular reader who was suffering from severe depression due to her husband’s extramarital affair. She told me that she has been following my Facebook blog since its launch and revealed to me that she has planned and attempted suicide multiple times. Through our numerous exchanges online, I share with her my experiences on how I attempted to overcome the hurt and betrayal I went through. We were able to relate to each other due to our similar experiences and we ended up supporting, counselling and encouraging each other on. Eventually with the aid of my much needed helping hand, she decided to drop the idea of suicide totally and muster her courage to face up to life bravely. With the constant support and advice of not only me but also a group of friends I’ve gathered, she managed to salvage her family and her husband acknowledge his wrongdoings and ended his affair. Words cannot express the happiness and warmth in my heart when her husband contacted me to apologize for his wrongdoings and thank me for helping him and his wife through this testing stage of their life.

It was through this life transforming event that motivated me to finally decide to setup my YUKI NG FB BLOG not only as a form of two-way communication for my readers to stay in touch with me, but also for them to relate with and share their own experiences. Subsequently, the [LOVE.CARE.LIFE] Facebook community page was also launched by me as a charity campaign to call forth and gather volunteers from every corner of the world to participate in the mission of impacting lives and to utilize the social media as a one stop meeting point to plan for future events and activities relating to our cause. The purpose of the [LOVE.CARE.LIFE] campaign is to create a circle of trust and care to reach out to people who are in need of a helping hand with the hope of helping them to overcome their struggles and difficulties in life. Most importantly, we most hope to reach out to those who are suffering from depression, psychosomatic traumas and suicidal tendencies by being there for them to aid them to recover and to help to successfully reintegrate them into our society. I sincerely hope that I can contribute and play a part in this humanitarian project in creating a more gracious and loving society.

My current objective is to bring my volunteers into the understanding of the simplicity of kindness and care aiming to awaken the good nature of humanity. What I hope to do is to leverage on various technological platforms to bridge the communication and distance between my volunteers to strengthen cohesion and team work. By leveraging on each others’ strength and uncovering the hidden potential within, we hope to be able to spread love, hope and faith to every corner of the globe. We hope that by doing so, we can awaken the fighting sprit from within of those who needs help to spur them on towards overcoming each and every obstacle and challenge that stands in their way. Our world will only change for the better if we believe so and by participating in the Big Blog Exchange, I hope to be able to help spread the cause of [LOVE.CARE.LIFE] around the world.

关于我 General Information About me:
http://www.facebook.com/iamyuking
♥ Email: yukinstar@gmail.com
♥ Twitter: Yuki Ng @Iamyuking
♥ Instagram: yukidehappiness
http://www.facebook.com/LoveCareLife
http://www.facebook.com/events/292458117524538
♥ Email: yukinglovelifecare@gmail.com


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大家好!我参加了这项全球性的博客交换国家交流计划的竞赛! 
比赛是先从世界各地投选出100最强的博客,然后由国际委员会选出16个超强博客和其他国家的优胜博主交换居住的国家,在10天内沉浸在当地文化洗礼过后为读者们分享旅程的经验。
希望我能有幸成为亚太区的博客代表,想要胜出入选100强完全是依赖你们读者大力的支持,请协助我的梦想起飞吧!让我们相信人能因梦想而伟大

如何投票:
1) 请按网址http://www.bigblogexchange.org/blog/182006
2) 请点击【投票填入电邮地址】再点击【确认投票Link 】投票方才有效!
    *可看指示附图*
比赛在4月15日截止

最后,请帮忙【发电邮】或【传分享】在Facebook邀请你的家人朋友一起来投票吧!请帮YUKI NG达成梦想,美梦成真!谢谢您的支持!感恩♥


我的推动力

我出生在马来西亚,目前定居在新加坡。开始写Blog原先只是想舒解与释怀内心压抑着因婚变所带来的伤痛,Dec 2012在FB公开部分Blog内容后引起了多个国家读者们的高度关注以不同角度和观念来议论这起事件。我分享的伤痛经历吸引了一大群同病相怜的心灵创伤者与我交流,其中一名忧郁症患者追踪我的Blog时透露了她想自杀的倾向。我马上用互联网联系的方式关心和鼓励她并集合网友们正面的精神支持成功感动了她放弃自杀的念头选择勇敢的活下去。这股具影响的力量让我有了使命感想继续写Blog, 开设了YUKI NG FB Blog来联系网友读者的交流并成立了[LOVE.CARE.LIFE]FB PAGE公益活动集合各国各地自愿的网络义工们利用网络资讯和计划筹办团体活动,共同努力献出互相关爱互助共存的精神来帮助受重创伤后无法走出困境阴影而引发的后遗症包括患上噪郁忧郁症, 自虐自残, 自暴自弃糟蹋人生甚至是放弃宝贵生命的人, 我希望能为社会人群做一点贡献。 我的目标是以真诚来唤醒人们心中最初那真善美的灵魂, 利用多媒体科技拉近人与人之间的距离, 团结互动, 一起散发出超强正能量在世界每个角落, 让世界每个人的心灵都被温暖着充满了希望, 凭信念坚强的站起来勇敢面对人生中的每一个挑战和挫折。 改变观念和角度, 世界也会随着你而改变! 我参加这国际博客交流计划就是为了鼓励读者们, 人能因梦想而伟大,不要放弃自己, 勇敢让美梦成真!

人生就是不断的奋斗,让我们一起加油吧

♥ Yuki Ng

04 February 2013

台湾虐殺男童主嫌死刑改判30年 家属民众不满判决!

这几天新加坡下起了长命雨,是连老天爷也在为可怜的王昊无辜丢命而哭泣吧?
星期来我流泪读着关于台湾二岁五个月大的男童王昊被禁锢连续21天遭四魔凌虐致死。无辜的小生命就这样没了!
我在小时候曾被两个大人诱拐,一夜禁锢在未完工的新建店屋的厕所里,所以我能感受当时王昊是多么的无助和恐慌。。。(将来有机会会和读者分享这段经验)。
面对这样惨绝人寰的虐杀儿童案,当知道小孩是如何被凶徒残忍地凌虐致死。。。我心凉了,我是个外人心都已揪结得久久不能释怀更何况是受害人的家属?虽然我未婚但我家有好多天真可爱的侄儿侄女,对受害者家属心灵承受的重创是能够用同理心来理解他们失去挚爱的痛苦的。

我综合了一些事件的简报:
案情人物小档案

男童:王昊/ 昊昊Wang Hao/ Hao Hao
男童姑姑:王薇君 Angela Wang (儿童权益促进协会理事长)
生母:潘美芳(无业毒友,潜逃通缉犯)
凶徒A:生母同居人刘金龙(40, 毒贩)
凶徒B:刘友人,许冠雄(33岁,货车司机,毒品前科)
凶徒C:刘友人,周健辉(29岁,无业,欺诈前科)
凶徒D:刘友人,郑盛峰(35岁,工人,毒品前科)
 
3人魔虐死童事件簿
11/11/2011 生母称2岁儿子王昊遭同居人刘金龙帶去玩。
29/11/2011 刘金龙男童交給友人(许,周,郑)
01/11/2011男童闹而惨遭凌虐以下等酷刑:
~ 香
烟烫灼身体
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強灌米酒
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掌嘴, 重击头部
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徒手硬拉生殖器
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用自制胶带缠电缆线狂抽男童
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铁锤敲打断裂
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尖嘴老虎钳硬生生狠拔手指甲
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用烧红铁钉来烫熟手指肉以止血
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长期为男童注射海洛因,最后过量而致命
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男童沒呼吸, 注射稀释毒品美奈水刺激生命力但却无效
~
凶徒已断气超过六小时的遗体置。

02/11/2011 ,许3警方以人罪嫌移送台北地
03/11/2011 生母凌晨前往院看見兒子慘死痛哭失聲潘美芳因毒品案通緝被移送地署。目前潜逃。

残忍不堪的酷刑 苹果日报的报道
 





男童的伤势:
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鼻梁断裂
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头部、四肢严重受伤
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左脚大拇趾、手指指甲掀起
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全身布满针孔,将近30多处烫伤菸疤
29/01/2013 法院前后审判结果大逆转
一审原判主嫌刘金龙死刑,没想到二审高院法官改判主嫌刘金龙30年有期徒刑,可获假释。
为什么反而变成减刑轻判?
 
家属无法接受法官判決,气到当场崩溃在法庭上
法官陈案理由让人费解
法官司法陈案理由让人费解:
* 凌虐造成的伤害都是“皮外伤”,不是致死原因。
* 死因是注射毒品休克死亡,但因嫌凶们是事先商量过注射毒品用量的,并非意图谋杀。
* “没有”直接谋杀“证据”。
* 认为凶徒在昊昊快断气时主动送医急救,属于人性“良心未泯”??!!
* 主嫌凶当庭向家属鞠躬致歉意,被法官认为已有悔意。 

试想一组四个成年人同谋,动机绝非单纯,
21天的禁锢,绝非一时冲动。伤害手无寸铁的两岁小孩时, 绝非自卫, 不是无知是无情!即然能像畜牲般地冷血残虐施刑在一个天真活泼小孩身上的还能被称“未至泯绝人性”? !!

个人觉得这判决陈词粉末倒置,年幼的受害者不能自保,已经往生不能自辩,似乎该关注的是怎样重判才能对受害人和家属还个公道! 而不是怎样轻判能对已造成严重人命伤亡的施虐者比较合理吧?因为它们已经丧尽天良,没有人性呀!

目前台湾正因这起骇人听闻的虐杀幼童事件而掀起了司法与民生之间拉扯的几个课题:
* 呼吁国家护幼保全重视* 台湾司法判案标准
* 废死刑联 对抗 反对「废除死刑」粉丝团
* 欧盟和国际人权主义施压


 
 
 

我不是法律出身不懂法律但却莫名的害怕法律, 因为相信“法律的威严与公正”。每个国家制定的司法制度是我们普众人民需要遵守与尊重的。

但不具民情法理的判决和司法陈辞既无法服众,也是二度伤害!要如何给受害家属一个合理的交代?如何安抚受创家属的心灵和广大民众不服不满的情绪?
一个公平合乎民情法理的判决才能让遵守法律的人继续遵守法律,让尊重司法的人继续尊重司法。让人们接受人性化的法律公正精神和崇高的司法制度是具有严惩重犯的公信力和阻嚇作用的。 让人们不时自我提醒切勿犯罪,后果自负的实际教育得以注入社会广泛的认知与学习。

台湾司法人员曾对宣判过后造成的社会反弹深感压力表示民众防碍司法判决,要家属放下仇恨接受冷血判决的想法是自私怕事,立场不定的自辩。
最公平又实际的效映应该就是严惩重判涉及此案的兽犯, 因为它们才是使仇恨开端的始作俑者。


听过熟悉的一句话:”法律“不外“人情”。
某些案情的发生的确情有可原, 可以谈人情,说宽恕。
我相信有些一时糊涂的“轻犯者”是会忏悔的,是值得给于机会改造和被社会重新接受和原谅的,更完美的结局是重塑后能回归社会贡献。
但此案情涉及的是一组连小孩都不放过,没有“人”性,冷血无“情”的 “头等危险“重犯者”,那为何要用“人情”,“人权”来看待它们呢?
法律尊重人权,谁來保障守法的人?人难免于生存的恐惧,面对这些凶狠的重犯出狱后如再犯伤害罪那该怪谁?是它们的错?改造的错?司法的错?还是大众自己的错?(包括:交税养它们,知道司法漏洞还不出声推翻?接受司法制度没有保护到守法人?)这个民众隐忧的社会责任由谁来担保呢?
孩子——没有能力保护自己时,又该怪谁?犯了伤害生命重罪的人要人权,孩子就不用吗?没忘了。。。孩子连哭喊救命的机会也没有!!!



废死联盟指责网民正义之说要求严惩重犯就被解读如同重犯丑陋行为的共犯?谬论!!!
你最多只能说观点不同。

“废除死刑”对已证实是极度危险的重犯罪者发出慈悲宽恕之心这种少数人想表现排众独我的宽容高尚情操?有时更像假人道主义吧?


了解了凶徒如何虐杀昊昊的案情,我宁愿被归纳为大多数愤愤不平的一群普通民众。
个人观点觉得,面对虐童残杀案的重刑犯绝对不能轻判。

死刑责任虽不能让一切悲剧还原,但废除死刑是连司法最后一道终极防线也删除了,没有了嚇阻作用的底线,间接地为有潜能犯重级伤害罪的惯犯制造更高的犯罪极限。如果人们学会从善不伤无辜不犯罪,废不废死已无需争端,既不需执行了又何需来废除?

虽说无论判决结果如何,小昊昊已回不来了。受害家属也没能从中受益, 因为伤害已致。。。但至少能让他们在极痛的心灵中少了一点点的痛的安慰,不服气的情绪少了一点怨气的释放, 担心已故受害者能否安息的隐忧和心理纠结给予自我的释怀,这也许才是她们的委屈和一再追究正义公平判决的主因之一。

这是个人支持正义的声援,也为表示[爱心关怀生命LOVECARELIFE]的鼓励与关爱,希望受害家属节哀顺变早日走出阴霾, 为活着的人坚强的走下去。